I too saw pictures of her when they first got together 15yrs ago and she was a lovely looking woman. Now her features are extreme. She keeps telling him that he’s hiding her because she’s trans and telling him if he needs to deal with it and be intimate with her. Truthfully I think he’s hang up might be just how very different she looks from the woman he originally fell in love with years ago. Despite that he should be honest because really….he doesn’t seem to want to have sex with her.