Danielle is not well-liked (for good reason), and everyone goes on and on about how she promised Yohan a life in America. But do people understand that he’s not a child? If the lie hurt him so much he could have left her. Essentially, the implication is either she lets him use her for a visa or he becomes her financial responsibility for life. Does that even make sense?
I also live in a ‘poor’ country and it is not impossible to make money. What happened to the meat shop? He doesn’t even try. Instead, he chooses to live off her dime, refuse to work, and now ROB her and act like he was justified in doing so.
Flat-out refusing to leave unless he is reimbursed was abusive behaviour and scary to watch, no one deserves that, not even Danielle.
Idk I understand both their mentality. In relationships, I’m generally like Yohan when it comes to money and trusting eachother. We are a team. Of course my money is yours and vice versa. The difference is all finances are discussed and open 💯. Lying on top of having an attitude about secret spending would upset and greatly confuse me too.
I’d be upset my partner felt the need to hide a simple necessity as food, plus food is a love language so it’d be like failing my partner if they were going hungry. Buuut Danielle also expects Yohan to survive on just meat and rice alone 🤷🏽♀️
But yeah, probs why you should always sort out money before marriage.