• Beatrix_BB_Kiddo@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    This guy is a grade A loser

    I wouldn’t have lasted half a date with him. He needs brought down to earth real quick

  • LunaBean4@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Sorry bro, but your fiance saying all she wants is a bathroom in the apartment isn’t much. Sure, she grew up privileged, but she has seen his place before, still wants to be with him, and she seems very humble and understanding. And how defensive he got was a huge red flag. She needs to run.

    • Prestigious_vibe5505@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      Not diminishing red flags, but this is Warning shots compared to what actual DV is. People saying isolation, what are you talking about….she has her own money and can go back home any day and she’s still in contact with her Mom. I’m not saying this isn’t early warning signs, but y’all going all out making it look like this what it is that it is that it is.

    • Mercenarian@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      The way he brought up the genius argument that she “could possibly be cheating” even when he has no evidence, when she wants to talk about him literally actually cheating with proof. Typical DARVO

      • dreezxlivefree@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        It’s funny cause people who say that about their partner are usually the ones cheating. I know from experience🙃

          • anonymous_opinions@alien.topB
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            1 year ago

            Similar situation, I was so confused, he once asked how was my date randomly assuming I had been out on a date with some dude when I was at Target buying the usual shit one buys at Target.

    • CivilFollowing7190@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      The way he thinks he is such a catch…she is no better. They both need to step into reality. A bathroom in your home is pure common sense…cheap ass can’t see that. They both need to move on

      • lokofloko@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        I haven’t started the new season but I keep hearing about this guy and his bathroom situation. What country is he in?! The fuck.

  • 2SticksPureRage@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    This man has a huge problem with anything/anyone questioning his masculinity or ability to provide.

    Anything that insinuates he’s falling short of expectations hurts his pride. Can’t take responsibility to save his life.

  • poshdog4444@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    I’m glad somebody agrees he is very berating when he speaks to her he’s very pushy. He acts like a bully and has no respect for her the way he speaks he doesn’t have respect for anybody, including himself look how he lives at his age.

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    1 year ago

    The part about her saying she was asleep/just wanted to sleep but he insisted they be intimate made me shriek. He’s awful

    • Little_Can_728@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      I completely agree not only does he tell her when they’re going to talk about a certain subjects whatever it may be, but the girl is exhausted and he’s, in a few words or less makes her have sex, he doesn’t care about her at all I think he just looks at her as a piece of a**.

      • RepulsivePurchase6@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        He screams “narcissist” to me. She’s too good for him. She’s better off flying back to England. The red shirt is telling, he’s a red flag.

        • Little_Can_728@alien.topB
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          1 year ago

          I agree, he knew that he could suck her in because she has already been there visiting him, She knew about the bathroom outside of the house but yet she excepted it so now he’s under the impression”why should I have to change” next Sunday they’re discussing children that’s something that should’ve been discussed before she even came there to live.

  • peepeehalpert_@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    What a fuckin piece of shit this guy is. He lives in a shack with a bathroom outside he shares with his neighbors and thinks he should be getting married?

    • tobsn@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      to be fair, that shack is in LA. he probably pays $2,500/no for that. it has a fucking garden! ;)

      • FunUse244@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        It’s not ideal, but I see his point. If you’re living in eagle wood, it’s not as bad as portrayed, but is still rough. I don’t think $2500 is much of an exaggeration. Also, I don’t remember what this guys does, but seems his still working on it. I think he’s making the best he can out of life at the moment. Sharing a bathroom with a few roommates probably isn’t much different.

      • Unusual-Diamond25@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        I live in LA and I’m currently apartment haunting. I’m that area that likely runs him around $1200 or so - no more than $1400

        • Cronchy_Tacos@alien.topOPB
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          1 year ago

          This was my thought. Would a 45 minute commute to the city from a more cost effective area kill him? Even a camper or mobile home would be 1000% more sanitary and habitable!

      • songbird-music@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        You can find a bachelor or single in LA with a restroom. Remember the storage facility Annie and David lived in? He can make it work… if he wants to.

      • SummerNothingness@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        i live in LA, there are plenty of acceptable places that someone with low-income can afford; he could always share a place with a roommate.

    • Neverthat23@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      Don’t forget that on the previews for next week where he is adamant about having children. I’m sure that outhouse will work really well for baby baths and blowouts. The way that I can’t stand this bum is unreal. Run girl!

      • Affectionate-Load379@alien.topB
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        1 year ago

        He’s counting on her family to support them, she’s a meal ticket for him. Plus, when she has a baby, he can erode her self esteem and independence even more, it’s a win win!

    • Cronchy_Tacos@alien.topOPB
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      1 year ago

      This is what I’m trying to understand. How did he manage to pay for the visa application/lawyer but not for a place to rent with like basic indoor plumbing? Lol Make it make sense!

    • Chachaichola@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      Not to mention him getting upset bc she says she didn’t want kids during the sneak peak for next week!!! Like bitch you can afford only a shack with no private bathroom and churros for a romantic meal and you want to add kids on top of that?? You kidding me!!!

  • Lostandbroken79@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    I really don’t think she has any money at all, although she has told him that. And I think he is angry because he thought he had hit the big one with her.

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      1 year ago

      I have the same suspicion for some reason. Wouldn’t be surprised if a big plot twist yet to come is that she may have grown up privileged, but those days are over now

  • MuteCook@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    She’s super hot, living in LA, and used to a luxurious lifestyle? This dudes dead in the water. Another Jorge in the making.

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        My point is he got so desperate for money he committed crimes and got caught and then his wife just moves on. I see something similar happening here