I get that she was up front about money and expectations. But all that aside she literally abused Jorge physically, emotionally, and financially. She controlled that guys entire life and never even apologized for it. And I’m not saying that Jorge is a great guy or anything. But abuse is abuse and she checks off all the boxes.

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    11 months ago

    Pretty privlege. That’s its. If she looked like Angela she would he treated like we treat Angela.

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    11 months ago

    She did say one thing that was painfully honest.

    Jorge asked whether Anfisa liked him because of money and she replied saying that “you wouldn’t like me if I was fat”

    It’s so true. People act all mighty and look down on woman for wanting a man with money but nobody says anything about how all men want women who are slim and fit.

    As someone who was slim and fit and became fat, this is the most true thing ever

    Jorge would’ve ditched her if she gained 20+ kgs

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      11 months ago

      Did you catch on the latest ep of Last Resort… Yara said Jovi told her he would leave her if she let herself go… so disgusting. Hate Jovi.

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      11 months ago

      Nothing wrong with wanting a wealthier partner, the problem is that she degraded and humiliated him over it. If she had no problem with acting violent on camera then I don’t even want to imagine what she was like off camera.

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        11 months ago

        Degraded and humiliated him for LYING about how much money he had and what her life would be like to lure her to the US

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      11 months ago

      “you wouldn’t like me if I was fat”

      This goes for most people, men and women. Most of us don’t want someone ugly. This ‘argument’ doesn’t exclude gender. Let’s not pretend that most women are ok with dating ugly fat guys, that’s just not true.

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      11 months ago

      Exactly this. It was refreshing to hear it spelled out like that. Sooooooo many of the relationships in this franchise are transactional, both ways! But the woman always gets the brunt of the hate for being a “gold digger”.

      Also it was just so deliciously funny to hear Jorge in his first episode say how much he disliked American women because they were too “feminist” only to have this Russian woman completely put him in his place without breaking a sweat!

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    11 months ago

    I think it’s the strong independent female thing. Jasmine is a fan favorite too, even though they’re both abusive and emotionally unstable. Lots of people say they’re just acting though, so idk

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    11 months ago

    I feel like this was back when viewers felt like they had to pick a side. Now we know it’s okay to just think both people are trash.

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    11 months ago

    I never considered her the villain the villain was George for being a jerk and misleading her. And I mean how far back in history do they have to go to dig up these villains Jonny Fairplay wasn’t he on survivor like 20 years ago? Most of those folks are from years ago I’m imagining a lot of people won’t even know who they are! Bad girls club? Sometimes the contrived things to just come up with for a TV show kills me.

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    11 months ago

    I say this all the time. She was EVERY type of abusive. Isolated him from his family. Slapped him openly. Keyed his car. Emotional abuse, screamed at him for merely leaving the house without her permission. Imagine if that were a man.

    I don’t give a fuck if she was “honest.” If a guy says “hey I’m gonna hit you” and then proceeds to do so, they’re still going to jail.

    She deserves that botched surgery and rotisserie chicken looking man body.

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    11 months ago

    Idk either she’s not even funny. It’s the same with the new Jasmine stans calling her hilarious… really? she is not funny at all. she’s just disrespectful

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      11 months ago

      Idk, I find Jasmine to be such great entertainment. I still randomly yell “who draining your balls” at my bf lol

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    11 months ago

    She’s not trash. Her temper aside, I would say she has done more for herself as a immigrant then most 90 day cast members… English isn’t her first language and she graduates UCI with honors. She is brutally honest and people can be uncomfortable with that. Jorge was brutally dishonest and was backstabber. I would take a straight shooter any day. That said, putting your hands on someone is never okay. There is zero excuse for that and can get you domestic violence charges.

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    11 months ago

    she’s a star. (not to be confused with a good person) every second of anfisa and jorge was insanity and it made fantastic television. she’s such a spoiled princess and he’s such a grimy gross pervert. it really feeds into the dichotomy of ‘girlboss make his pockets hurt!!’ chicks and passport bro dudes

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    11 months ago

    She was terrible and I hated her.

    But I also hated him. He lied to get her to move and commit with him. And when you think about visas, and her obviously wanting to make a better life for herself, he basically ruined her chance to get another visa. How many fiancee visas are they gonna approve for one person… he kinda fucked her over.

    I do not mean to say it was her right to abuse him, because it was 100% wrong of her to do, regardless of how much of a snake he was too.

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    11 months ago

    For me its more like “well shes honest” and Jorge is a liar. Doesn’t mean shes a good person or her actions arent abusive