Okay genuine question here. Where was child BoJack supposed to go? I doubt be even realized the treatment he was getting was way out of the ordinary. Hollyhock got out early because of her mother who left the family early on, and had a decent upbringing, and could recognize the the bad - and rightfully so - walked away. BoJack could only look back and realize the things he’s been through. But he being as he is after finding and recognizing his past is definitely on him but I guess that’s for another time