“I only slept with you before him. You realize, right? So yes, it’s a big deal for me to sleep with somebody else who’s not my husband, so I had to keep a connection with him.” Make it make sense. That’s her rationale??? And we call (rightfully) Aseulo a bit dense?
That’s exactly what I had in mind reading this whole thread. Let’s just keep the playing field even here and not give women passes for things that we find disgusting in men’s behavior.