“I only slept with you before him. You realize, right? So yes, it’s a big deal for me to sleep with somebody else who’s not my husband, so I had to keep a connection with him.” Make it make sense. That’s her rationale??? And we call (rightfully) Aseulo a bit dense?
THIS!!! Thank you for sharing your story, I’m so sorry you and your children have been going through this for so long. Kehlani has clearly kept a lot of the abuse she’s suffered quiet (which I COMPLETELY understand, it’s her story and she doesn’t need to share the details for it to be valid) and I wish more people had sympathy for what I’m sure has been a nightmare for this woman. Like you said, she’s not perfect, but the trauma of the church, Asuelu, Asuelu’s family, and raising children in that environment? That’s a lot.