I felt like this was a safe space to vent but Jasmine really gets on my nerve. She’s always crying and making herself a victim and Gino ears that crap right up. She’s tell Gino she never had a problem with a man loving her or having sex with her and then cry to tv and say that she never felt like she deserved love because of her dad leaving her when she was three… she’s all over the place.
If your astute enough to have identified where your insecurity and abandonment issues come from then you should be able to begin solving the negative behaviors that are rooted there, not use them as a pass to act like a raging asshole.
Sidenote: If she was three when her father left how come she knows all this stuff about how he never wanted her? Her mother told her that and probably used it to punish her for her bad behavior. “Your father would never want a bad girl like you.” Or “This behavior is why your father won’t come back”, etc. My grandmother is from Panama and guilting your children for their bad behavior is just what moms from that culture and from a certain older generation do. Yes this my opinions and not proven fact.