Consider me the devil’s advocate or whatever buuut….

Yeah she’s crazy at points but she’s extremely self-aware. Her self-awareness is admirable. I feel like now we’re finally getting a deeper glimpse into her childhood trauma with her father not wanting her, Gino magically having another woman’s lipstick in his car, and I feel like his lack of accountability. He doesn’t really know how to help her when she’s experiencing her trauma and just kind of stands there like a deer in the headlights. She talks about her abandonment issues & her very low self esteem issues which are extremely evident considering the belief that she needs so much plastic surgery when she was already mad gorgeous. She outwardly tells him hey yo I’m upset about X,Y,Z, and instead of him truly trying to understand her, he comes up with excuses and/or judges/makes fun of her for those things, which would trigger literally anyone who has any remote abandonment issues. Idk I truly think that she loves Gino (literally leaving everything/everyone she knows and loves behind), she just has so much repressed trauma from her past & deep seeded self esteem issues. Both of which can be v relatable.

She’s a deeply pained woman, and a deeply pained person isn’t just gonna magically not be that once they get into a relationship. Wish she would go into therapy.

And I wish Gino would take her pain more seriously.

  • nah-n-n-n-n-nahnah@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    Sometimes it’s hard to tell what is staged for the show and what is real. She does some crazy shit but most of it feels fake to me. I think her trauma is real and I do think she loves Gino.