An old friend of your mom’s shows up to visit. Seems super cool, befriends the whole family- but especially you. Insists on taking you to prom, insists on buying you liquor which one of your friends gets alcohol poisoning from. After having to be convinced to get help for her, this ‘friend’ dumps her at the er and makes sure your other friend lies about the situation before rushing off without even knowing if everything is going to be okay.

Then he’s willing to take advantage of you in a confused moment and the only reason he didn’t is that your mother walked in just as things were getting started. Sounds pretty traumatizing to me.