It happened with Kalani and Asuelu. It was mentioned to Danielle when Yohan wanted to move to the U.S. Now, it’s Manuel demanding it from Ashley.
I understand that it’s a cultural thing, but why do parents want to put this kind of stress on their children? I feel like it’s a tradition that’s been passed down and since they did it for their parents, it is just expected. Even just a grace period to help them get on their feet before they start sending $200 or $300 a month could alleviate the stress.
I’m from Canada and it’s extremely financially hard here, I couldn’t imagine sending money to anyone every month. I don’t know exactly how it is in the U.S., but I would think $300 is still a lot for anyone to send monthly. Not to mention, these people only have one source of income since the person coming can’t legally work until they get their green card. I know that it’s really a lack of communication on their end, but it really seems that the family is demanding as well, like it is incredibly toxic. Is this a normal thing or is it just exaggerated for T.V.?
What do I think? Ashley is getting what she deserves. If she didn’t do research into Manuel’s culture in the 2+ yrs they have been communicating than shame on her. Once he is established here, gets married, starts working and sharing with his wife, then he can figure out how much can be sent to his family. That is not her responsibility. Additionally, he is being way to secretive about his life. How does she know that he isn’t married? This can all be a scam to take her to the cleaners. Once he is here, she is responsible for him in every aspect. She needs to send him back and stop getting hung up on the bedroom thrills. Silly, dumb and immature. That whole coffee thing was ridiculous. And, I am certain that is not her only “weirdness”.