Seriously, when I saw Ashley doing this my mouth dropped. That was the most passive aggressive, juvenile BS I have ever seen from a grown woman. If you and your partner have issues and you want to talk to them about it, talk to them about it. Don’t call your friend crying while also trying to manipulate your partner and make them feel bad by having your friend chime in on your issues.
You are an adult. If you have an issue with someone, talk to them about it. Don’t call your friend and make them listen to the call so that they feel like shit. It’s a really low thing to do.
To the extent that actually happened… part of it is that she can’t deal. She has to call someone to keep her from having a panic attack because something doesn’t go her way.
I think she confuses having normal daily anxiety with panic attacks. Like, I have severe anxiety and I’m not even that bad. Either she needs to look at something that works better for her than what she’s currently doing or she needs to learn how to deal with daily anxiety.