Seriously, when I saw Ashley doing this my mouth dropped. That was the most passive aggressive, juvenile BS I have ever seen from a grown woman. If you and your partner have issues and you want to talk to them about it, talk to them about it. Don’t call your friend crying while also trying to manipulate your partner and make them feel bad by having your friend chime in on your issues.
You are an adult. If you have an issue with someone, talk to them about it. Don’t call your friend and make them listen to the call so that they feel like shit. It’s a really low thing to do.
She should not bad mouth him anywhere. She created this mess. She isn’t the most stable person (huge understatement). He needs to get away, she ain’t worth $300 bucks a month. If someone off handed me a dripping drink to hold, I would hand it back. His hell is just starting. Go to your NY relatives, then back home.