For the better or for the worst, which book actually affected you. I’ll start, The Virgin Suicides by Jeffrey Eugenides. Such an amazing book, well written and suprised me.
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The blurb on the back stated that each Lisbon sister k1lled themselves one by one. What I was expecting was throughout every 3 or so chapters, a Lisbon sister would kill themselves. But actually, 85% of the book, was only 1 Lisbon sister dead and the other 4 alive until the end when they all k1lled themselves. If I was told that the large majority of the book was just about the Lisbon girls life through the eyes of teenage boys and then eventually in the end they all k1ll themselves, I would probably be less interested in the book. But this book was hard to put down, it was so well written with amazing vocabulary and it spent the right amount of time explaining things (instead of using 12 pages to describe a staircase or only 3 sentences to describe a plot etc). It kept me interested and also with it being on a slightly alarming topic (suicide), it gave the book an eerie feeling which filled me with a strange comfort.
The Kite Runner - it’s the first book I had a visceral reaction to. I was in such anguish, I had to physically walk away.
The Book Thief made me cry. And most recently, so did Blue Nights by Joan Didion. It’s a memoir about her losing a child, which unfortunately I can relate to.
I think what makes me feel connected to literature is the ability for authors to put into words what I can’t, thus validating my experiences and giving the book a deeper, personal meaning. As C.S. Lewis said, “We read to know we are not alone.”
Bless you so damn much. Joan Didion was a galactic talent and to turn her focus and aim it on grief was so powerful. And I love your username.
Reading Mary Oliver is a religious experience! I get something new every time I read her poetry.
I loved Blue Nights too, and also cried
I thought I would be able to get through the whole thing without crying, but I got to the last page and lost it.
I loved the Kite Runner. But you’re right it was heart breaking. When my ex was reading it, at one point he looked up at me and said “I just can’t take it.”