Come on, he admitted lying to her in the first episode or two (lying by omission at least) and he has done sweet fuck all to ever address her emotional needs. His family doesn’t want her there and judges the shit out of her, then burns shit in her house and spritzes urine for good measure. She’s batshit crazy for staying there. I’m not going to defend her behaviour overall, lots of room for improvement, but TJ is and remains a piece of shit who looks incapable of giving a shit about his wife other than to bang and run the house for him.