I think Kim is going through so much, leaving her country, her friends and family, that she probably is in a depression. Thats alot for anyone, which the people on this show should show more of. TJ needs to be more affectionate and validate her feelings, he seems to get frustrated quick and becomes defensive. But kim, giirrrrrl! You gotta tuck that crazy in! Get on some meds and try to focus on making memories as a newlyweds.