I agree, I feel like TJ doesn’t know what to do. Like having to hear each side complain, and you’re stuck in middle, is tiring. He can’t force her to come down, but she won’t come down because she doesn’t want to see his family. And If TJ tells Kim to come down, they probably get into heated arguments and ruins everyone night. I don’t know, i mean, the only solution i see it, is for her to go back to the US.