Am I the only one who is siding with Nikki on this one? Surely the only reason someone would want sex at that hour and NO other time is because they had a dirty dream and wanted to get rid of their boner?

I’m not defending Nikki because I find a lot of things about her problematic, but in this situation I could just imagine feeling so used

  • kalum7@alien.topBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    I was with her on that. My ex husband used to wake me up from deep sleep to have sex, even when he knew I had to be up early the next morning. It felt abusive.

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  • Zhalianna@alien.topBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    Wait, she finally getting sex and she complaining? Haven’t seen the scene yet lol

    With that said, my partner knows better to wake me up at 3am for sex

  • yeahhh_I_said_that@alien.topBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    It’s because he doesn’t have to see or think about her. It’s lazy convenient sex without her jabbering on and on. Best part of their segment tonight was him saying “bitch vibe is coming” so true, she has to be so dramatic saying they’re done every single time she’s on screen. He’s not attracted to you girl. He’s attracted to the lifestyle you’ve been giving and promise him.

  • Proof-Spray-188@alien.topBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    Nikki complains about sex but what she really wants is Igor to be in love with her which he’s not. If I’m with my partner and I know we are in love, this wouldn’t bother me. It’s a bigger deep rooted issue

  • cynic204@alien.topBEnglish
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    9 months ago

    OH! I just watched her comment and laughed out loud. Her issue is that they had a ‘moment’ = it was a quickie. One and done. That is why she’s unimpressed. And he’s happy he got his itch scratched without a bunch of conversation and went back to bed.