That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
Brandan obviously put no thought or foresight into how he was going up support a family but Mary seems to be certifiably crazy in the coconut. They are a disaster in the making from day one. Both having fault of their own and while I do think Mary is worse, Brandan is just as responsible for ignoring all her red flags. I guess that’s what you get with damaged people.