That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
He is a child. He had no structure growing up and needs a kick in the a** to get his stuff together.