That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
I don’t believe he is lazy, I think the gaming is like his way of escaping reality. I’m sure depression will hit soon if it already hasn’t. He knows, he didn’t make the right choice being with her and a child as well but now its like he is too far gone or invested in this. Her constant nagging because she doesn’t have any hobbies makes him even more miserable, so he is just like a little hermit crab at this point. Toxic relationships come in many shapes and sooner or later you completely lose your identity and just like give up and I feel like he is at that stage where he just doesn’t give a f@ck anymore and playing video games is his only way out because I’m sure he can’t drink or smoke there.