Absolutely not defending him in any way, particularly since she doesn’t seem to like the name. I just wanted to share something silly and kind of related. I have a Korean friend who calls her husband “donkey”. When I asked her why, she laughed and said it’s because he has a long face. I think her husband, also Korean, calls her fish or something because she has big lips. Definitely could be cutesy IF both parties thought it was cute and fun.