My last relationship was with a Korean man. He used to always make fun of my “tummy”, so much I got to the point of wearing a t-shirt while we had sex. His nickname for me was “Angry”… Because I’d always be angry with him for treating me like crap - and yeah he used Korean & Asian cultural differences as cover. I am half-Asian myself so I get it, but at the same time, doesn’t make it less hurtful.
My fiancé is Chinese and the family are harsh man. I was having a glass of wine with them the other day and they asked me why my chest was so red as it was blushing. They have no filter.
My fiancé is a teacher and would call his students useless to me at home, but he doesn’t make fun of my body and I’m still recovering from the birth of our son. If he made fun of my body, that would be crossing a line.
Learning this is all very interesting, thank you for sharing. Since I haven’t had much experience with Asian culture, i didn’t realize they are pretty blunt, this makes a lot of sense now that I look back. I’m really glad your partner isn’t making you feel bad, and I’m sorry that his family does 💜
My friend is Korean but her family is sooooo brutal to her. She’s on the bigger side & that’s all they acknowledge about her even though she’s a surgeon! It was crazy to me seeing it firsthand.
My last relationship was with a Korean man. He used to always make fun of my “tummy”, so much I got to the point of wearing a t-shirt while we had sex. His nickname for me was “Angry”… Because I’d always be angry with him for treating me like crap - and yeah he used Korean & Asian cultural differences as cover. I am half-Asian myself so I get it, but at the same time, doesn’t make it less hurtful.
People treat you the way you allow them to.
Something is broken in a person who dates someone who “always makes fun” of them.
I’m hoping you found your spine and will never tolerate someone like that again.
:( This makes me sad, I’m sorry this happened to you.
Makes me want to date a Korean man. Lol
My fiancé is Chinese and the family are harsh man. I was having a glass of wine with them the other day and they asked me why my chest was so red as it was blushing. They have no filter. My fiancé is a teacher and would call his students useless to me at home, but he doesn’t make fun of my body and I’m still recovering from the birth of our son. If he made fun of my body, that would be crossing a line.
That’s odd since we have a higher rate of alcohol flush syndrome
You would think they would understand why your chest was red when asian flush is a thing that probably effects them.
Learning this is all very interesting, thank you for sharing. Since I haven’t had much experience with Asian culture, i didn’t realize they are pretty blunt, this makes a lot of sense now that I look back. I’m really glad your partner isn’t making you feel bad, and I’m sorry that his family does 💜
I wouldn’t come to Reddit to learn about Asian culture
My friend is Korean but her family is sooooo brutal to her. She’s on the bigger side & that’s all they acknowledge about her even though she’s a surgeon! It was crazy to me seeing it firsthand.
They’re awfully confident men for having small dicks
I’m sorry you dealt with that, that guy sounds like a real jerk. I’m glad he’s an ex!
If you say no and persons still calls you piggy why stay. They do not care and will not be there for you when you need them.