We basically get the same segment every season, a close family member or friend grilling the non-American partner in the relationship about them coming over “to get a Green card.” Even if that was a valid concern, you don’t ask that when you rightfully say “I don’t know much about them,” go get to know them first and you can see someone’s intentions clearly after that.
Some people forget that a non-American could be living a high quality of life already and isn’t going to go to Bumblef*cktown in the U.S. just to scam someone.
I do too, it’s like what some English speaking partners do with the non-English speaking person, almost speaking to them as if they’re stupid or something, but the opposite way