Reading these Iv had an epiphany….the reason these men are so chill, and the women are so wound up and bitchy is because men go through life with women holding their hand. And it’s just explained why my partner is the way he is. He lives with just him & his dad when they got divorced. Sister went with mom. and all they do is tinker with bikes and cars. They have motorbikes in the house & are always in coats & hats because they never have any heating on. Giant dog flap a human could fit through. when he comes to my house, he’s always complaining it’s too hot which it isn’t. It’s just normal. it’s like inside and outside are the same.