dick head !

I am watching episode 3 in Before the 99 days and he complains about Darcy’s makeup “Makeup is not for everyone Darcy!”

He was sporting cherry red lips during this declaration.

Yea… Jovi is the apple of her eye and clearly can do wrong. I don’t really think she is terrible generally but really off in this instance. She just defends, excuses and minimises Jovi’s actions and decisions and Yara has no support. Hopefully she reflects on this reaction. It is pretty bad.

Yip! Exactly this… And he seems to have his mothers support for this plan too. And his mother seems to think it is better for Yara to be impregnated against her will than be in control of her own body. Really, wtf?

So Jovi wanted another baby, He wanted more sex, He didn’t want to bother with the day to day raising of this baby either, Yara was not ready to have another yet,

And he and his mother are OUTRAGED she went on contraception!

I just don’t understand. So she should just have lots of unprotected sex and get pregnant against her will? And cope with a newborn and a toddler alone for months at a time? How is that not the outrageous bit?

Clearly Jovi wants time away to have freedom to drink, party, go to strip clubs and she can be his beautiful brood mare stuck at home.

I thought Yara was so reasonable and articulate and mature and open with her communication. To me she was so clearly had reasonable wants and was trying to make sensible measured decisions.

Yovi is never going to grow up. He will always like looking at naked young girls no matter how old he gets. He will always drink. He will always put himself first. He will have his Mommy backing him up. I don’t see him ever changing or being capable of putting his family before his own desires.

He wants another baby to keep her tied to him. To make it harder to leave. I think he senses her patience is limited.

I think Jovi may be an ok guy but he is terrible at a commited relationship with all the responsibilities and restrictions that gone with that.

Yara needs to get out. She is a beautiful, well groomed and dressed woman but she will age as we all do and strippers in strip clubs are always young. And Yovi has needs…