It’s pretty funny because yes you’re supposed to relate to him, but because people related to them they started to like him and justify what he was doing unintentionally. This is why they made BoJack hurt more people so that you wouldn’t like him and start to actually dislike him as a character while still developing him as a character. That’s why I like the show so much. But yeah I relate to Bojack as well. It’s not great but it’s getting better. Especially after seeing a bunch of fakes scenarios and a show repeatedly, I began to be more open to getting help and finding ways to cope and grow.