• 0 Posts
  • 4 Comments
Joined 11 months ago
cake
Cake day: October 17th, 2023

help-circle


  • I spent 19 months in an abusive relationship with an aggressive man. I ended up physically unwell. No one can tell you to walk away. You have to get there on your own. A guy like this a** hole, his ego is so huge. She has insecurities and somewhere inside needs him, and thinks she can change him. She is 1 of 2500 that he really wants. She probably plays that in her head over and over. Then there is the sympathy… she feels sorry for him. She probably thinks he doesn’t mean what he says. We often feel sorry for these idiots. They will say divorce, trauma, something made them sad, and that is why they are like this. We women feel bad and want to help. No more helping for me. I joined the I don’t give a F**k crowd! We all have sh*t doesn’t mean we treat others badly. Actually, it should be the opposite. Treat others better than we experienced so they don’t have that same pain.


  • Jovi cares only about himself. He also got a job offer near home and refused it. He chooses to be away from his family, yet wants more kids??? This makes zero sense. I think when Yara met Jovi, she probably went to the strip clubs with him. She liked his crazy life, and he had buckets of money. She settled into a family life. He never changed. This is a problem for many. The last resort should have taken him aside and gave him a talking, too. Makes one think the stripper scene was set up by production. Since no therapist stepped in.