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  • Honestly, her commentary was also the talk that half the people on this show need to hear.

    And I think it’s a valid stance.

    I think they both have some flaws - everyone does. There are clearly some mismatches and continuing gaps on him coming around on her coming out. But I think Nikki is right that the biggest problem is that they maybe just aren’t a good fit. She wants a certain lifestyle. He wants another. Nobody is necessarily the bad person but it’s maybe just not actually a good fit. I think she just wants the version of him she met when he was young and focused on having fun. And he’s thinking she’ll change into a different person than she is.

    Half the people in this show are in love with an idea and not the person and she seemed to be one of the few to point that out.

    Though it doesn’t seem like she’ll act on it.


  • Honestly, her commentary was also the talk that half the people on this show need to hear.

    And I think it’s a valid stance.

    I think they both have some flaws - everyone does. There are clearly some mismatches and continuing gaps on him coming around on her coming out. But I think Nikki is right that the biggest problem is that they maybe just aren’t a good fit. She wants a certain lifestyle. He wants another. Nobody is necessarily the bad person but it’s maybe just not actually a good fit. I think she just wants the version of him she met when he was young and focused on having fun. And he’s thinking she’ll change into a different person than she is.

    Half the people in this show are in love with an idea and not the person and she seemed to be one of the few to point that out.

    Though it doesn’t seem like she’ll act on it.