He wasn’t trying to be nice. He was deflecting. I agree that the Dane situation is questionable.She was 100% correct when she asked why he would quit his job when he knew he was going to have to have an income to bring over/support her kids… she also mentioned that he doesn’t even have food there for her other than bread, peanut butter and nuts…
I don’t think they were being meanspirited, a lot of the people on the show can be nuts. I think it’s an escape for people as a lot of them on the show are entertaining.
That’s great that you met someone! I read somewhere that tlc is looking for new couples. You could actually make some money. Don’t feel bad about what your friend said. I really don’t think they meant to upset you. Welcome to 90 day fiance! People here are nice.