I agree and as a white person married to a desi person and I’m surprised TJ doesn’t get offended on how she always complains about his culture. If I had the same attitude with my husbands traditions he would be deeply offended. She definitely doesn’t love his culture as much as states she does because she would be wanting to adopt his culture more. TJ sucks though too, especially in preparing her for this transition. He knew what the wife’s duties of the house were. He just wanted his mom to be the bad guy and made it seem that she was the only one implementing those rules and he’s just as clueless as Kim.