Dude if she’s drinking that much coffee in a day and it’s all Starbucks, it’s not insignificant. 8$ per coffee and she’s already had one at home, three on the road, wants to buy another, and the day has just started? A conservative estimate is 15$/day which is almost 500$ a month. That’s like a car payment….
It’s honestly shocking to see them argue that their partner should be making more sacrifices for them and compromising their culture when you just know they’d be the same people to say “you’re in America now, you have to get used to it!”