Nobody owes their abuser anything. I think it comes down to if you believe her or not. I’ve been SA’d and been through DV. It sucked and I wish I had left sooner, but you don’t see a way out at the time. I get it. I also happen to not believe her, I really just don’t. I’m not going to argue about it or explain why, because I am not trying to change anyone’s mind. I completely get why people do believe her too and that’s fine.
I don’t believe her, so I’m tossing that part and just comparing the rest of their relationship and in that case I think they’re both shitty people.
Anyways my point is, people who believe her feel like its being glossed over. The people who don’t believe her, really don’t believe it happened so we continue to talk about the rest of thejr relationship. I’m not thinking a rape happened and ignoring it, and I don’t think the others are either. We just legit don’t think it happened so we moved along. I hope that explains it decently.
You drunk, bro? LOL