I’ve lived in Asia for 15 years (Korea, Japan, Taiwan) and yes it’s really normal for people to talk this way. I’ve had strangers come up to me randomly to tell me how fat I am. The younger generation all know and agree it’s rude, but it happens constantly from people of all ages. It sucks to live here sometimes. I’ve developed a thick skin, and learning the language has helped me tell people politely to stfu lol

I think she is young and dumb. That’s it, lol. When I was 22, I got back together with a boy-friend 12 years my senior who had been hiding a secret double life due to his crystal meth addiction the entire first year of our relationship. First love is… hard, and at that age, a lot of us with unresolved family issues or other trauma shit just don’t value ourselves yet or know what we deserve.