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Cake day: October 23rd, 2023

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  • I feel like Rob is gaslighting Sophie by saying his place on Inglewood is “normal” and “pretty safe” (“I’ve only heard one gunshot”) instead of humbling himself enough to admit that this is not a very safe place for a young woman like Sophie and validating her concerns. It seems to trigger his egomaniac personality traits to even think about admitting his place is not ideal. Meaning it would probably hurt his ego too much to admit it and validate her worries. And by not being able to admit that and putting his blinders on, he is putting Sophie in a dangerous and uncomfortable situation (which he KNOWS) and he is gaslighting her by saying things like “you’re just used to bougiee stuff”. I feel like this is the type of guy that could find himself in an overtly dangerous situation with his girl by his side and when she says “hey I’m scared let’s get out of here”, his ego would take over and he would probably tell her to “chill out babe it’s fine” rather than admit that he is also scared and he would walk them right into danger. In my experience, this is the type of person who is obsessed with themselves and doesn’t think about others because their ego is out of control. He will most likely never validate her feelings because he will interpret her feelings as a personal attack on him. CRINGE! If it continues down this path, I see her leaving him when she finds her worth and realizes he has been emotionally unsupportive and gaslighting her. In my experience these are one of the worst types of guys! Deep inside Rob knows he is an egotistical scared little boy and he’s trying to gaslight Sophie into believing everyone lives and acts the way he does. 🙄 It’s a “no” for me. It’s almost unbearable to watch how he treats her. end of rant 🙂