I know Aseulu is too far gone. You cheat once? Okay, maybe reparable. However, at least 12 times? I have lost fatih. That being said, Kalani is going the wrong way. Unfortunately, now it is too late and both men are going to have to be in her life. Firstly, she should have never taken the hall pass. I know it was out of anger and an emotional response. I understand why she did it, but yet, I don’t think she should have. It would have been best if she held on to her morals and proceeded the right way in divorcing or separating from Aseulu. Once you include other people in your marriage, it is doomed.

Secondly, she thinks this new guy is so much better, but how? Where is his morals? No good standing man would meet a woman who is in marriage counselling to repair their marriage. If this man is okay with continually weaving himself in, he will 100% be okay doing it with other women on the side.

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    11 months ago

    If she had skipped the hall pass she would never have known that a better more fufilling relationship was possible

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    11 months ago

    I checked out on their story. If you’re an adult, you leave, or you stay and try to fix it. Staying in a relationship just to wage some stupid War of the Roses-style campaign of mutually assured destruction is damaging to everyone in the family. These two need to get off the damn TV and worry about their kids.

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    11 months ago

    Cheating or not, she should have been done after sexual assault. He’s lucky she stayed. Sorry folks, I side with Kalani on this one. He cheated and sexually assaulted her. She definitely needs to kick him to the curb.

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    11 months ago

    I honestly think she is just hurt and angry and this was the only way she could think of cutting the cord. It’s clear that he’s cheated in the past and that wasn’t enough to make her leave. Maybe she was hoping either this new guy would be the one and would sweep her away, or that it would be the straw that broke Asuelu’s back and made HIM leave since she couldn’t. Either way, I don’t condone what she did but I get it.

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    11 months ago

    Your post is right on. I agree that new man is on his best behaviour and right now he’s showering her with love but a decent man or woman wouldn’t get in the middle of that mess.

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    11 months ago

    I hope if she leaves Asseulu she takes some time to find her self confidence and have some uncommitted fun. The way she hardly dropped them tig ol bitties out with the other gals said it all. She deserves so much more.

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    11 months ago

    She is hurting but has no problem getting pounded while staying at the same resort. Is she broken, or is she already done, and this is just for show