Clearly their relationship deteriorated once BJ started his lecturing gig and Hollyhock found out about New Mexico (nail in the coffin being the televised interviews). However I can’t help that feel that Hollyhock has some of the same character flaws as BJ, and despite his major issues , he’s still family. In that sense maybe BJ would get her in a way others wouldn’t. I kind of hope that in the long run BJ gets his shit together and they can form a healthy relationship.
I do hope they can have another convo even if they decide to not see each other again, also why is it that everyone expects you have the obligation to forgive/ love your family. Idk if that’s your view but I’ve been told that so many times abt my brother bc I refuse to forgive him people alweays say but he’s family. It’s weird too bc when people figure out he’s adopted they change their view… can blood rly make somone depend if the forgive/ love or not?