To me even since Happily Ever After she’s been really really let down by Asuelu and his family are willing to have them live in poverty because of their own expectations.
Sure there are cultural expectations and things, but surely if you know your grandchildren would suffer because of the amount of money you’re asking for you’d either dial it back or not ask at all.
Sure Kalani teams up with her sister but I think it’s because she feels utterly unheard in her relationship. Can you blame her? Asuelu and her don’t have the same love language at all and they have a huge barrier in terms of language and culture.
Just my thoughts.
I so dislike Kalani for so many reasons. Ppl keep bringing up the Mormon religion however her sister and brother seems to be very open and normal and they grew up in SoCal so I don’t think religion is to blame for Kalani poor choices in life. Kalani and Asuleu never really had a solid relationship, if you look at their YT video on how they meant, they have only hung out for barely 2 weeks broke up and meet again for 2 weeks. In the LDR I just don’t know how Kalani could have a conversation with Asuleu about any kind of future. Asuleu is who he is, a simple person and has the maturity of a teen and he’s never presented himself any other way. Kalani on the other hand carries herself as being smarter, responsible and more mature when in reality Kalani is she’s just another women who got pregnant by her vacation hook up of 2 weeks. She didn’t want to be a single mom even though her family were fine with her being one. Which shows how judgmental Kalani has on single moms especially since she used to work in teen mom group home. She thought she could mold a guy to be like her dad which is the most toxic and controlling thing a person can do in a relationship. Now she’s in her 30’s with 2 kids taking advantage of her family to help her out with childcare all while she’s chasing young dick and blaming Asuleu for everything. She needs to focus on her kids and herself
Perfectly stated.