To me even since Happily Ever After she’s been really really let down by Asuelu and his family are willing to have them live in poverty because of their own expectations.

Sure there are cultural expectations and things, but surely if you know your grandchildren would suffer because of the amount of money you’re asking for you’d either dial it back or not ask at all.

Sure Kalani teams up with her sister but I think it’s because she feels utterly unheard in her relationship. Can you blame her? Asuelu and her don’t have the same love language at all and they have a huge barrier in terms of language and culture.

Just my thoughts.

  • Fun-Employment-581@alien.topBEnglish
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    1 year ago

    And yet people only seem to hold her accountable for this, as though people think she deserves the way her husband has treated her because ‘what do you expect?’. It’s kinda messed up that people think she deserves poor treatment simply because she rushed into a relationship.

    • pelosweat@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      I mean you expect big ole nothing between his eyes to prevent pregnancy and at least pull out….hellll no

      • Fun-Employment-581@alien.topBEnglish
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        1 year ago

        He’s definitely not the sharpest tool in the shed but people seem to infantilize him and place all responsibility on kalani, and that’s not really fair.

    • JustMari-3676@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      It’s not that she deserves it. She made a mistake. Very human, though some of us would have avoided taking vacation snack play further than what it is. But there would be no Asuelu drama if she didn’t bring him. I highly doubt he had even thought to come here to be with her.

    • Celistar99@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      I don’t think she deserves to be treated like that, I’m just saying it’s not shocking that their marriage didn’t work out. Getting married because you feel like your have to instead of because you want to is never a good idea.

      • Fun-Employment-581@alien.topBEnglish
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        1 year ago

        The thing is you can know someone a long time and still get cheated on and end up having a messy relationship. This is literally what happens to people who DO get to know each other too. Though I get your point about jumping into a relationship without thought, it’s never a good move, especially when you go straight to having kids. That’s fair.