This season of 90 Fiance is the second one I’m watching, which means it’s also my first time seeing returnees such as Kenny and Armando and Yohan and Danielle. My partner, who is a big fan and has watched all seasons, told me Danielle was horrible in her first one. I don’t know to what extend, but is it really a big enough reason for the community to constantly defend Yohan and say she deserves everything happening to her?
I personally have no sympathy for Yohan, he is an entitled little boy that doesn’t understand how life in a relationship/not living at mom’s work, that wants everything right now, right here, as if money was falling from trees. He’s clearly with her entirely for the money and it makes me sad for her.
Not saying Danielle may not be bad herself, again, I don’t know anything form her outside of that season, but can’t we at least settle with “they’re both terrible” instead of making it look like Yohan’s behaviour is completely fair and justified.
I’ve watched them from the beginning, LIP, and I dislike them both. I think the biggest issue people have with Danielle is her (1) bankruptcy and the audacity of trying to be any type of life/money coach. (2) how she responds to criticism on SM by saying people are basically haters because she’s crazy evolved and (3) how their relationship is obviously transactional but she wants to play the victim by acting like it wasn’t.
Lastly, her lying and laughing at him in English that she was not bringing him to the US was a dick move. Especially knowing he would see it later, with the entire would. That’s not respectful behavior.