Honestly, most days I’m agreeing with what Danielle is saying when it comes to finances, but the most recent episode (13/11/23) when Danielle asks Yohan to pay half the rent, plus bills etc. I think was super unfair. She has an American job, which pays American wages. Yohan is/was working for Dominican wages.

When Yohan said if he contributes the same he will have nothing left for himself. And I agree with him (if these facts are true)

In my personal opinion, I think financial contributions should be split by % of income. My partner (33M) contributes more to our household because he earns more. If I (29F) contribute the same, I wouldn’t have any personal savings or extra money for myself. When I was earning more, I was contributing to the household more. It goes both ways…

  • The_Crystal_Thestral@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Because he told her last season he could not afford the apartment. If my husband made the decision to rent or buy something and then told me I had to pay half of it when I told him A) I don’t want it and B) I cannot afford to pay half, I wouldn’t contribute either. Jamming her fingers in her ears and disregarding what he’s saying isn’t working out well for her. But then again she’s didn’t accumulate $80K in toll violations by making intelligent financial decisions.