Honestly, most days I’m agreeing with what Danielle is saying when it comes to finances, but the most recent episode (13/11/23) when Danielle asks Yohan to pay half the rent, plus bills etc. I think was super unfair. She has an American job, which pays American wages. Yohan is/was working for Dominican wages.

When Yohan said if he contributes the same he will have nothing left for himself. And I agree with him (if these facts are true)

In my personal opinion, I think financial contributions should be split by % of income. My partner (33M) contributes more to our household because he earns more. If I (29F) contribute the same, I wouldn’t have any personal savings or extra money for myself. When I was earning more, I was contributing to the household more. It goes both ways…

  • melmoore82@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    This!!! While I agree he should contribute she’s being unrealistic. She said he agreed to $75000 pesos a month; in the DR that’s around $1,320 USD the average salary in DR is $800 USD ……

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      10 months ago

      Oh my god, I didn’t even do the math for it. That’s even worse now! And she asked him to pay bills, food etc… god that’s just so crazy