They hate her because shes a woman. Next question.

But seriously, if she was a male, the reception towards her would be way different. “Cryane” flipping out/yelling/breaking shit is just a “joke” about an “overdramatic” woman, something to laugh at. But if a guy did it, it would probably be a “serious plot point” and people would be scared/anxious about what he was gonna do next and who he would hurt.