I’m sure some are already aware of this, but please do not assume that all Indian families are like TJ’s. Wiping a pan with a cloth that was previously used for wiping cow dung is considered filthy, disgusting, and unhygienic by all Hindus I know including my own family. Don’t get me wrong, there are some families in specific castes who may do this because they’re still living in the fourth century, but the majority definitely, definitely don’t. One of my old coworkers would always make fun of India and asked me if I drink cow urine. I was so offended by this and furious with him for asking me such a disrespectful question, but after watching this episode and the awful way they represent India, I realized he asked because he must’ve been watching something similar. Seriously, please don’t assume that all or even any Indians commit practices like this 🤦‍♀️

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    10 months ago

    Thank you for the synopsis. I think in any culture what the family does. The cow manure in the cloth is disgusting and unsanitary TJ do not tell Kimberly this on purpose because she would never married him and probably would go back with her family. Personally, I don’t care how much I love a man I would never put up with that family or their customs.

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      10 months ago

      By the look of her insufferable Instagram, she’s already back with her family and belligerently defensive about this very poorly planned marriage

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      10 months ago

      I haven’t seen this episode yet. Cow poop smells dreadful. They were using it in kitchen? Wtf? How unsanitary. Did they disinfect or leave the poop there? If a man told me or I was shown cleaning with poop, I would be outta there asap!