Dick? He was as polite as someone in this situation could have been. Imagine being in a support group because a maniac killed your wife. Everyone in the support group has family members and partners who were killed in the line of duty. A newcomer arrives in the support group and you realize she hasn’t lost her partner. He was the maniac responsible for the death of your wife and she joined the group because he had lied to her and he abandoned her. It would be insulting to the memory of your wife for this woman to join the group. Debbie is one who is at fault here. You are only displaying your immaturity by calling him a dick. You know the character of Debbie so you think that every character should show her the same sympathy. Even a guy she just met. Grow up and try to understand perspective. If you are so biased for fictional characters I dread to wonder how you act in real life.