It’s easy to call him a dick from on observers standpoint lmao.
Imagine your wife is brutally murdered, and then you find out the guy who did this and also killed all of her colleagues, THEN murdered hundreds of people in another city, THEN tried to take over the planet, was married to the lady right in front of you for 20+ yrs. Most rational ppl would wonder how they never saw any signs of it and if not they wouldnt have a positive reaction lol. get real.