As someone that doesn’t view going to the strip club itself as an issue as long as all partners consent (I’ve gone with friends and so has my husband, we always have stories to tell each other and it’s no biggie but it’s also not something done often lol)- this WAS overkill and absolutely crossing boundaries.

Sure maybe a basic ass lap dance from one dancer could be okay if everyone involved is respectful (the dancer knows they’re married so tones down the closeness and the married person legit keeps hands to self), but this was not that. This was set up to be a huge temptation for Asuelu (obviously production had to get permission to film and planned the outing so those dancers were being paid). Fits the theme of the show, no doubt. But yeah, this was a test and Asuelu failed miserably ahahaha