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Cake day: October 16th, 2023

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  • Lol no not everyone has the same opportunities in 2023. I grew up in poverty and it’s NOT easy right now for anyone. I don’t know how it is in LA I will admit (although the consistent issues with homelessness suggests you’re not correct about everyone having the same opportunities), but over here on the east coast, it is ROUGH. People are losing their homes left and right due to inflation and stagnant wages.





  • I was saying I don’t think he IS middle class, he’s probably more poverty level in context of the location. I know someone who lives out there in a one single room apartment, when my former roommate went to visit she couldn’t even walk the neighborhood at night- and irs not cause they’re lazy, it’s because it’s what they can afford.


  • I think it was in multiple different ways so it’s easier to say he cheated than explaining every single different scenario. Because cheating can be seen differently within different relationships.

    So far we know he physically cheated before moving to the US, and the incident before she cheated with her hall pass. We know at least several were online, whether emotional affairs with women online, or paying for OF content or just nudes from women online. It seems like a mix of everything tbh and it’s definitely a serial behavior he has. He cant keep his eyes or physical parts to himself.


  • As someone that doesn’t view going to the strip club itself as an issue as long as all partners consent (I’ve gone with friends and so has my husband, we always have stories to tell each other and it’s no biggie but it’s also not something done often lol)- this WAS overkill and absolutely crossing boundaries.

    Sure maybe a basic ass lap dance from one dancer could be okay if everyone involved is respectful (the dancer knows they’re married so tones down the closeness and the married person legit keeps hands to self), but this was not that. This was set up to be a huge temptation for Asuelu (obviously production had to get permission to film and planned the outing so those dancers were being paid). Fits the theme of the show, no doubt. But yeah, this was a test and Asuelu failed miserably ahahaha



  • He lives in an area of the US that is overrun with poverty and it’s getting worse. He has to prove he has the income to support her for the visa, which means he has it. But he’s in a huge high COL area where countless people are living in tents. Dude at least has a roof. I don’t know what everyone expects from Americans at this point, they ain’t all rich.