Is it just me or are these two the most boring couple?? I want to ff through their scenes but I’m afraid something interesting will actually happen and I’ll miss it.

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    10 months ago

    Not really boring because he never ceases to amaze me with the level to which he can disrespect her, and how she will tolerate it. She puts on this persona that she’s a strong independent woman who won’t accept bs from anyone. Then, this guy can say anything he wants to her and drag her in front of friends or family, and suddenly it’s ok.

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      10 months ago

      Right!⬆️ strong Intelligent woman ??and wants to marry this clown-who is using her and she’s so smart 😂

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      10 months ago

      The sad fact she tolerates it because the bumping uglies is good. So not a reason to stay in a relationship. It seems all the couples have that focus in a relationship and that is extremely not healthy

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      10 months ago

      It feels like she knows deep down that he’s bad news, but she’s ignoring her gut instinct…which is almost always a bad idea.

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      10 months ago

      I forget how old she is, but even if she’s in her 30’s it’s not too uncommon to be a bit immature about how men treat you if you’re inexperienced. Some of these women I just want to grab and shake them awake, because I’ve either been there or seen others who have. She may have also been experiencing a bit of limerence (which I think a lot of these couples do) – in that in the time apart while waiting for this Visa she has all these fantasies about how it will be, that he’s clearly not living up to. On top of all that, she feels like she has a time sink, as she mentioned in the last episode – a lot of people will stay just because they don’t want to feel like they wasted their time / money in someone for it to not work out. Unfortunately, that often leads to more waste.

      This guy gives me Luis vibes. He has family in the US he doesn’t want her talking to, and I think once he’s a little established here he’s just going to take off with them and try to figure out how to stay.

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      10 months ago

      Ikr! She needs to pick an emotion either she’s ticked off at this guy and rightly so and not going to put up with his BS or she’s gonna lay on the ground and be a doormat pick one 🙄. there would be no chance in hell I would be sending money The man has not introduced her to his family at all, so no money if you’re not going to introduce her to the rest of the family, he is very sketchy. I understand it’s a cultural thing but it makes me wonder why is it when a foreigner comes over to the states and it’s a cultural thing to send money to the family back home so what happens if the American goes to where the partner is why is that partner not sending something back to the Americans family, I think that tradition needs to stop. Manuel needs to go get a job so until he has that job there should be nothing sent home.

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      10 months ago

      Thank you for putting this into words. He will straight up disrespect and dehumanize her while depending on her (and maybe scamming her), and when she argues back it seems like she’s just upset he didn’t rinse the dishes.

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      10 months ago

      I just want to say, her cat’s needs should come before him. F him. F his family.

      The cat gets the bed. The cat gets health care. The cat gets love. That’s how it should be.

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      10 months ago

      This is true. She even said it, claimed it, put a flag on the strong, independent woman …. But that’s as much as it is

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      10 months ago

      Bahahaha!!! True!! And he’s so chill about it…classic end to a snickers commercial….

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      10 months ago

      Bahahaha!!! True!! And he’s so chill about it…classic end to a snickers commercial….