So he doesn’t want to see a therapist for better communication but he can’t communicate “hey, I need to deposit $300 to my family at the end of the month”
How is she suppose to know your family depends on you financially if you can’t talk to her about it. Plus, how willingly would anyone send money to STRANGERS? (Because he’s never really introduced her to his kids and other important people).
They need therapy. He need therapy
Sadly, this negative attitude towards therapy doesn’t just exist with people from countries other than the US. I offer up my husband as exhibit A. I continually get told that I am the one with the problems and that if I want things to be better than I need to fix myself. (Note: I’ve been seeing a therapist since I was 16 years old for severe cPTSD. For anyone keeping score at home, that’s 40+ years of counseling.🤬)
You might actually need a divorce lawyer.